Document Type : Original Article
Authors
1 Department of Islamic Studies, College of Islamic Sciences, University of Sulaymaniyah, Kurdistan Region, Iraq
2 Department of Religious Education, College of Islamic Sciences, Sulaymaniyah University, Kurdistan region-Iraq
Abstract
Islam depends on the principle of gentleness and deliberation generally in all aspects of life, because gentleness and deliberation are among the characteristics of great men and the morals of men who adhere to and closely attached to it and follow the Sunnah of the Messenger of God , for he is the one who said: ((O Aisha, Kindness is not found to be in anything but that it adds to it’s beauty and it’s not withdrawn from anything but it makes it defective)). So The preachers should be kind to people and treat them in the best manner, Treating poeple with compassion ,kindness and deliberation ,showing and expression of compassion and sympathy have a great impact on the one who instructs good and forbids evil and aims to reform society.
The Prophet was the an ideal example of gentleness and deliberation in calling people and treating their mistakes, with a spirit of compassion, sympathy, kindness , and knowledge of the motives that led to their lapses, and working to remedy them.
The Prophet never acknowledge harshness and violence, but considered harshness and violence in treating people a kind of alienation from this religion
This research reveals two models - contemplation and remembrance - which are among the important behavioral etiquette of a great Islamic scholar - Ibn Qayyim al-Jawziyyah - in the field of behavior education and etiquette, and aims to reveal their true concept and the relationship between them; and their educational ethics to modify behavior; At one of the scholars of Islam; To clarify clearly the features of the Islamic educational school, especially in the field of human behavior and etiquette. In the educational process, and the presence of an abundance of educational behavioral etiquette for these two characteristics referred to on the behavior of the individual, which Ibn al-Qayyim gleaned from the Holy Qur’an, the correct Sunnah of the Prophet, and the sayings of the gnostics and imams; And his experiences of faith and reality, so the research shows that Ibn Qayyim Al-Jawziyyah is an educational reformer who gave the individual's morals and behavior great care, and drew attention to how to properly educate them, to create a sound Islamic personality, which gives the individual a wide religious culture about life and how to live in it.
Therefore, this research came to explain (gentleness and deliberation in the call of the Prophet (peace be upon him) and its impact on the call), and I used the analytical approach in this study, bringing the texts and then analyzing them, and divided this research into two sections: The first topic: the definition of the terms of the title, and it includes three demands: the first requirement, Definition of kindness and deliberation linguistically and idiomatically, the second requirement: the definition of the call and the Prophet (peace be upon him) , the third requirement, the basics and controls of kindness and deliberation, and the second topic: important controls and differences related to the title, it includes three demands: the first requirement, the difference between kindness and deliberation, the second requirement, kindness between excess and Negligence , third requirement: effects of kindness and deliberation from the Qur’an and Sunnah in calling to God At the end of this research, I reached the following results:.
1-Kindness and deliberation are among the most important pillars of Islam and the approach of the Prophets (peace be upon them) in calling to God.
2-The principle of da’wah is gentleness and deliberation, and sometimes it may require severity and harshness in some advocacy situations, if stubbornness, arrogance and disregard for the da’wah appear.
3-Consider and reflect on the consequences of harshness and distress, and take into account the benefits and harms.
And I ask God to accept it from me and benefit the Muslims, and may God’s peace be upon the Seal of the Prophets and Messengers.
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